If your wife has lost interest in sex you are not alone. The Journal of American Medical Association (JAMA) reports 43% of American women suffer from some form of female sexual dysfunction (FSD), which refers to diminished sex drive. However, this number could be much higher as JAMA only considers a woman to suffer from FSD if she is distressed by it. Not all women are distressed by a loss of sex drive.
Consider these recent survey results:
70% of women indicated they have experienced a sexual health issue, most issues were related to a loss of interest in sex, according to a recent survey commissioned by the National Women’s Health Resource Center and the Association of Reproductive Health Professionals. In an online survey 70% of married men indicated their wives admitted to them they had lost interest in sex. 77% of the men indicated the wife’s sex drive had “Greatly Declined” since living together.
FSD Summary
In 2002 on her television show, Oprah Winfrey called FSD a “silent epidemic affecting millions of American women.” What no one is talking about is the millions of American men who are also affected. FSD is a significant problem for women but can be an even bigger problem for men. When a wife loses interest in sex it is likely the husband who suffers the most from a lack of satisfying sex, intimacy and a healthy relationship.
What is FSD? In the 2/10/99 JAMA medical publication FSD was defined with the following 4 categories of sexual dysfunction in women:
1) Hypo-active sexual desire disorder – Complete loss of interest in sex
2) Arousal disorders – difficulty in becoming aroused
3) Orgasmic disorders – difficulty in having an orgasm
4) Pain disorders – pain during sexual contact
FSD research is a relatively new field of study although there have been some causes and cures identified. Below are a few common FSD causes identified in pre menopausal women, excluding major female surgeries:
- Childbirth, giving birth to at least 2 kids can reduce testosterone and estrogen levels in a woman’s body, which reduces their sex drive.
- Birth control pills are known to inhibit a woman’s libido
- Anti-depressants, most will negatively affect a woman’s desire for sex.
Any one of these 3 events can negatively affect your wife’s libido. If your wife has given birth to at least 2 kids, is on birth control and anti depressants odds are her sex drive is greatly diminished or non existent. What you should know is there are specific reasons why women lose interest in sex and now researchers are finding solutions to improve a woman’s sex drive.
FSD Drugs
Are there FDA approved drugs to treat FSD? No. The focus in recent years on sex drugs has been for Erectile Dysfunction (ED) and as a result we have FDA approved drugs including Viagra, Cialis and Levitra. While there are currently no FDA approved drugs for FSD but that could change in the next 12-24 months with the progression of Flibanserin and LibiGel.
Flibanserin is a daily oral treatment manufactured by the German pharmaceutical company Boehringer Ingelheim. Flibanserin was initially developed as an anti-depressant but was found to have a side effect of improving the sex drive in some women. There is no date set for Flibanserin’s release although there are expectations it could hit the market in 2010.
LibiGel is a testosterone gel manufactured by BioSante Pharmaceuticals. The gel is applied daily to a woman’s upper arm. “Off label” non FDA approved testosterone therapies are reported to be the most commonly used physician assisted treatments for FSD. The BioSante website estimates 2011 for FDA approval and LibiGel launch. What Can You do to Help Your Wife and Yourself? Here are 3 things every husband can start doing today to help his wife with FSD:
1) Educate yourself about FSD. There are many good websites with FSD information, just search “female sexual dysfunction” in any major search engine.
2) Talk to your wife about FSD to help educate her. If women don’t know FSD is a curable problem they are less likely to seek out solutions for improvement. Start your discussion with the Oprah quote from above to get her attention so she understands she is not alone.
3) Talk to a sex therapist or qualified doctor about the problem. Most general practitioners are not adequately trained to help with FSD, so you need to find a qualified doctor or sex therapist.
Why is FSD information important to men? If men aren’t aware that FSD exists as the problem behind their wife’s lost sex drive how can they help with the solution? Women typically are unaware of FSD and only a small percentage will seek out medical help for their sexual problems so the husbands must get involved. Afterall, married men may have the most to gain from helping their wives overcome FSD.
By: P. David Ridge
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Celebrities Love Botox
December 14th, 2009
Virginia Madsen is one Hollywood star who’s open about her Botox treatments. Rather than hide them, Madsen isn’t ashamed to admit that she uses the procedure conservatively not for her fans or a guy but to feel great about herself.
“I don’t want to be 25. I’m 45. I love the way I look. I feel better than I ever have in my life,” the sexy star said.
As the model for the “Keep the Wisdom, Lose the Lines” campaign of the National Women’s Health Resource Center, Madsen hopes to educate women about injectable cosmetic treatments.
Desperate Housewives’ star Teri Hatcher can’t seem to make up her mind whether or not she loves Botox. Last year, she admitted being a Botox fan in the past but decided that she would rather age naturally and gracefully.
“I haven’t had anything done to my face in over a year. And I don’t plan to. It needs to be OK to have wrinkles,” she told fans.
This year, she told the Daily Express that she never had Botox injections nor does she plan to get them.
Since it was approved for cosmetic purposes in 2002, Botox’s popularity has grown by leaps and bounds. Celebrities like Sylvester Stallone, Elizabeth Hurley, Ryan Seacrest, Celine Dion, Madonna, Cher, Kim Cattrall, and Kylie Minogue are suspected of using it. But the Botox Club isn’t confined to TV or movie stars. Thousands of men and women all over the world rely on this non-surgical procedure to fight wrinkles and the number of converts is increasing.
“The reason Botox has become so popular is due to the simplicity of the procedure. It does not require hospital admission, there are no surgical scars, no anesthesia and the results are visible in a few days,” according to an article in MediIndia.Com.
Botox is the brand name of the botulinum toxin type A, the purified form of the toxin secreted by the Clostridium botulinum bacterium. When taken in large amounts, this toxin causes the food poisoning botulism. In small doses, Botox paralyzes specific muscles and stops them from contracting. This relaxes the muscles around wrinkles and makes the latter less noticeable.
Botox is currently used by doctors as a temporary treatment for moderate to severe frown lines between the eyebrows, crow’s feet, and wrinkles on the forehead.
“Not all facial wrinkles benefit from Botox injections, however. Botox won’t reverse wrinkling caused by sun damage. Also, it’s less effective treating the lines around your mouth because muscles in this area are needed for eating and talking. Your skin type, skin thickness and degree of wrinkling all play a role in determining whether these injections are effective for you,” said the MayoClinic.Com.
Moreover, the procedure is not free from side effects. Adverse reactions include pain and bruising at the injection site, redness, headache, nausea, and temporary facial weakness. At the hands of an inexperienced doctor, Botox injections can be dangerous.
For your safety and protection, choose a board certified physician. If you’d rather be sure than sorry, use a product that works like Botox like the Rejuvinol AM/PM Botox Alternative Age-Defying System. This anti-aging system combines the power of the Rejuvinol morning moisturizer that creates firmer, healthier, and younger-looking skin; and the Rejuvox night cream that reduces fine lines and wrinkles. Check out http://www.rejuvinol.com for more details.
By: Sharon A Bell